536B7FF1-D49F-4050-8CD5-850AE386E84B.jpegi needed my dad, and i still do. i am worshipping and talking to Jesus, resting in union with Father, speaking against warfare, singing against it – not striving or fighting in my own power and strength

he is disarming my linear way that cannot go backwards or be interrupted or have one way things work. the new way is not linear; if i get off course it is to find you there. if i turn from you i run straight into your arms. if we go backwards you move the finish line. there is no arriving at a destination of wholeness – it is only deeper and more because you are infinite.

you minister to me God. in quietness and rest is my strength. you renew and refresh my soul. in beauty you make me come alive again. in your presence my soul is revived and awakened. my story can never end in death – you only redeem. you only deepen. you only renew and make beautiful. even when you carve out and cut deeper than my deepest wound and pain, i cry out and it sounds like a battle cry, a melody of worship, and i am changed and i see you more clearly.

when i am still and breathe, your hope fills my lungs. when i pause and listen, settled knowing truth rises up and quiets my racing. my answer is yes, i trust you.

you truly are life, and i will not run from this dark night. i will welcome it because it is you. you are the woods. you are the storm. and when the waters rise, i will not be overcome, but arise baptized in more of your power and beauty. *


*last line inspired by instagram post by Kalley Heili



Being back in one of my favorite places in the world, I couldn’t wait to stand on the beach, my feet in the sand, the sun dipping below the clouds, and have total peace, contentment, settledness, wonder joy and awe, rush over me and bring to tears and thanksgiving like it had in the past. But it didn’t.

“What is wrong with you? You are incapable of emotions and being present.”

I still have some sadness while trying to be present at amazing places and not feeling total wonder, beautiful, emotional resonance and reactions; trying to be present but feeling the veil, and just seeing how much weight I put on emotions to define something and make it true… that emotions, senses, feelings are reality. Which I don’t think is all wrong or bad, but I definitely do that with my relationships as well as my walk with God.

“I don’t feel you anymore, something is wrong. I need to fix it”

When in reality we get tastes of the sacred Romance here and now, we can’t control it, but I wish I had the emotions and the feelings that make something/define a moment to be true or weighty, etc. because then it feels true.

I’m trying to be ok in the mystery, instead of when I have an experience with Jesus and then I’m changed and feel something, as time goes on and I feel differently, I panic and go to a place where I say “what happened!? I have to be back in that place! How can I control and manipulate my reality to get back there!?”

When again, it was another taste of the romance, like visiting a new place for the first time and then leaving. You’d be crazy to try to go back and re-create everything to feel the same thing, instead of having the memory, remembering that you encountered beauty and were changed by it, desiring more but content in the not yet, being haunted by the romance, and saying “God was there. That was good. That will never leave me, whether I feel it or not. The romance will be back in another way and another time, and I can’t wait, because I was made for that, and God is restoring it in me.”

It’s not always something wrong with me that I can’t fully experience the moment. It’s the veil, the not yet, the broken fallen unredeemed, that will soon give way to the fullness of union.

freedom day

4th of July is one of my absolute favorites for many reasons. Summer, warmth, community, America, bbqs, lakes and boats, fireworks! But I am reminded every year that all of the celebrations rest on the foundation of a very core truth: we are free. And this freedom that we experience in our country even serves as a reminder of an even deeper reality: my forever freedom is bought with a price, and I am FREE.

We can tend to have a very immature sense of freedom when we define it as the ability to do whatever we want, whenever we want. I believe that this mentality has allowed us a lot of hurt and chaos in our country and culture.

True freedom is freedom FROM something, FOR something. We are free from death, from the law, from works, from self, from the enemy, from the world, from sin. But we are not set free for the sake of sitting in that freedom or doing whatever we want.

That is not kingdom.

We are set free for abundant life. To love recklessly. To grow into our true self. To converse intimately with Trinity. To abide in perfect union. To advance Kingdom on earth.

Anything less than this is not real freedom it is bondage. It leads to death.

And something that Jesus is showing me recently is that kingdom freedom very often requires a new dependency or responsibility. That I thought that I was my most free when I was fresh out of college, single, working 3 part time jobs, able to travel and leave whenever I well pleased. But that was not actually truest freedom. I’m experiencing the most freedom putting down roots. Getting married. Committing to things. Giving up “freedom” for Kingdom Freedom. It has made every difference. You see, in the kingdom, many things are backwards. Worldly systems are turned on their head. I believe the way freedom works is one of them. Jesus says, “risk this. Surrender. Trust me. Commit to this. And watch what I will do.” And you do, and somehow you gain. Somehow you become fuller. Somehow you are more free.

So this morning I am so thankful that we are a free nation. I am so thankful for the men and women who gave their lives and fought to purchase our life. There is always sacrifice and selflessness in true freedom. Thank you Jesus for being the ultimate. I want to give my life for your dear ones as well.

And somehow then I will find it, more free, along the way.

Happy freedom day, everyone.

more joy than

I find more JOY in following what you tell me to do than in chasing after all the wealth of the world.

Psalm 119:14

meditating on that scripture… I so want to hear Trinity’s voice even more clearly… to KNOW what they are inviting me to do. I want to be so fully surrendered, not protecting my life, totally ready for whatever whenever. I believe and feel that I am and could be, I just want to KNOW that voice. know that it is Him clear as day. He is inviting me to see one of the biggest issues hindering my hearing – because He is always talking – is my attention span. listening to too much noise, other voices, distractions all come in to play… but my ability to ferociously push them aside to make the space. to sit in the silence as they vie. to wait in the nothing. patiently. until the still small voice cuts through the emptiness…

let there be Light.


For all of God’s promises find their “yes” of fulfillment in him. And as his “yes” and our “amen” ascend to God, we bring him glory!

Whatever God has promised gets stamped with the Yes of Jesus. In him, this is what we preach and pray, the great Amen, God’s Yes and our Yes together, gloriously evident.

2 Corinthians 1:20 TPT and MSG

amen. so be it. it is such a beautiful word.

its proper place is where one person confirms the words of another, and expresses a wish for the issue of his vows or predictions.

from the root word “to believe”, and “to support, confirm, be faithful, nourish as does a pillar or a foster mother and father. to be founded, firm and stable – of a place where a nail is driven in.

i can say amen because i believe in the one who is stable, the one with nails driven in his body.

Jesus introduces his teaching by saying amen, or “truly i say to you” in other words, you can lean on this as truth, you can build upon this, this will support you.”

i say amen, and i say that i agree with God. that i believe it to be true and to become reality. i desire and hope it to be so.


trust & enjoy

And so, dear brothers and sisters, you are now made holy, and each of you is invited to the feast of your heavenly calling. So fasten your thoughts fully onto Jesus, whom we embrace as our Apostle and King-Priest.

Hebrews 3:1 (The Passion Translation)

i so so so so easily get weighed down with focusing on my broken, my not enoughness, my unfinished. and it’s heavy and i feel stuck and less than and behind. but this morning as i ask for freedom and lightness i hear Jesus say:

it comes through trust and enjoying. trust i am doing it in you, that i’ll take you back to the unfinished broken unhealed in MY time, not by you staying in that place making it happen and trying to find it all on your own. trust your new nature, who i say you are. live out of that place. it’s true despite what you feel. and when you start trusting and enjoying me and yourself, you are free to trust and enjoy others. you’ve learned the hard way from the critical route of others. trust that i have them and i am telling you your story, not theirs. enjoy where they are. it is good. enjoy where you are. it’s great. and that’s the only place you can find me. let me have and handle your broken and unfinished. that’s it’s only rightful place, in my arms. right now is a time to enjoy and try out your true self. trying it out makes it feel more true. i have so much in store for you, but only when you trust and enjoy, instead of heavy analytical fixing. lay it down and go out and dance and run and eat and drink and enjoy and trust and fully live.

i love you, kid.

to becoming love,



lately Jesus has been stirring up more questions and grey and mystery than any one thing i am learning. i think in part because i always read 12 books at a time and dont give myself the space to dive deep into one area of new. but He is bringing me back to a place i have been before; ambiguity and the question of “what is the balance?”

what is the balance between rest, enjoyment, soul care, and battle, hard work, giving my life away? what is the balance between getting away and healthy time vs. isolation?

for one thing, this reveals my curious tendency to figure out, perfect, get it right. Jesus, show me the balance of grace and growth.

right now the balance that i am struggling to understand the most is between being made for MORE and the desire of that more in every area and being content in all circumstances, at peace with what i have, present.

i have been created ravenous: always desiring the next thing. always wanting more. hoping the next adventure, season, thing, situation, person will be the thing that leads to my contentment. nothing is enough. never satisfied. “yeah that was great, but these are the ways it could be better, i would improve on this this and this.” always wanting myself to grow.

in many ways, i love this about myself and think it is a gift. we were made for more. our hearts were created for endless and abounding beauty, life, relationship, depth, perfection, glory… i dont want to settle for anything less. i always want to be growing into that space of more.

but i have impossibly high standards.

so judgment and discontentment are forever at my doorstep, just waiting for me to choose cynicism instead of hope. discouragement instead of encouragement. words and thoughts of despair instead of speaking life and keeping my hoping heart alive.

Jesus, show me the narrow way.

right now i cant think of anything more glorious or more toxic to my relationships.

on one hand my discernment is through the roof and i have eyes to see the not yet, the potential, the broken, the glory, the dreams, the wounds within a human. if i choose grace, and to see the good, and bless the right now, words and streams of life flow from heaven through me to them. but unless i stand in that unlearned foreign grace and patience and love and blessing the journey, i want to fix and change and control or isolate, go on to the next, do me.

Jesus, redeem my way. show me how to love well.

how do i keep hope alive and always dream big and never want to settle, always be excited for what is coming, always desire growth and maturity and the more that i was made for… while also blessing and appreciating where i am right now? how do i want more while simultaneously being completely settled in the present, blessing and giving grace to the unfinished and the not yet and the journey?

Jesus, be the balance, teach me how to walk well. show me the balance.

i am made for more, yet i am made for right here and right now.

this ravenous mess doesnt know.

to becoming Love,


life updates:

– anders and i are MARRIED and living in atlanta, ga. it has been great and so hard not being close to my family, my people. hard opening myself to new people and places. i love him, i love being married to him, and it is showing me a lot a lot.

– i am still working part-time with Zoweh and now entering into the real estate arena. i dont know why other than i know that is what Jesus said is the next right thing. i am completely overwhelmed and if i suddenly get hundreds of bottles of wine in the mail i would never ever hate that.

– Jesus and i are meeting with a group of girls every thursday morning to talk about Him. this has been amazing even in the few weeks we have met because i have to re-teach my own heart and remind myself that i have never outgrown the “basics” (i hated that sentence but dont know what else to say about that).

– i want a dog.

thats all for now.